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IX. Co-sleeping

Konner, The Evolution of Childhood (Harvard University Press, 2010) + Small, Our Babies, Ourselves

Solitary infant sleep is a recent industrial cultural anomaly

Anthropologists documenting infant sleep across cultures. Continuous mother-infant contact day and night is the species norm. Separating mothers and infants for sleep is a recent industrial practice, largely confined to Western societies. Small's 'Our Babies, Ourselves' synthesized data from dozens of societies.

Melvin Konner (Emory) and Meredith Small (Cornell) are two anthropologists whose work documented infant sleep practices across cultures. Konner's work with the Ju/'hoansi people of the Kalahari documented continuous mother-infant contact day and night, with no separate infant sleep arrangements.

Small's book 'Our Babies, Ourselves' synthesized cross-cultural data from dozens of societies, including the rapidly shrinking number that still practiced traditional infant care. The pattern was consistent.

Separating mothers and infants for sleep is a recent practice, largely confined to industrialized Western societies, and it represents a sharp departure from what infants have evolved to expect. This does not by itself prove cosleeping is better. It does establish that the species norm is cosleeping, and that the burden of proof should sit on the practice that is the historical anomaly.

Continuous

Mother-infant contact, traditional cultures

Recent

Western separation practice

Industrialized

Limited geographic spread

Konner & Small

Primary anthropologists

Why it matters

Solitary infant sleep is not the default human practice. It is a recent industrial cultural choice. That does not settle the question of what is best, but it does change which side has to justify itself.

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